What's Bitchen at Bitchen Bitches?
What happens when three
friends who share a passion for Gordon Setters start emailing or IM'ing at a
time when we had nothing specific to talk about? You'd think, since they
collectively account for over a century involved in dogs - three-quarters of
that in Gordon Setters - that their experience would lead them to the same
conclusions and there'd be nothing else to discuss. Not so. At
least not for (Heidi Moon of Moonsetter Gordons, Dianna Ellis of Bluewin
Gordons, and me, Bev
Holoboff, SureShot Gordons ). While we seem to share a similar 'eye' for
what a good Gordon means to each of us, we can debate even things on which we
are fundamentally in agreement. What we've found is that these ongoing
discussions have helped each of us learn and change (or even just reaffirmed
our previous convictions). That's what good discussion is about; not the
"I'm right/you're wrong" positions but rather, "here's what I
think and why but you could have a point". Over the past while, each
of us have had shifts in opinion as well as the rush of having someone else see
something in a new way because of what we said. We all benefit. Our
dogs benefit. Our breeding programs benefit.
Recently,
we were thinking that single-minded thinking occurs too often in the dog
world. Some of that is caused by club-based positions, some by major
winners being perceived as 'the best', some by established old wives tales,
some simply by laziness in thinking. People can't always just open their
minds up and discuss things like we do with each other. That led to us
thinking about putting some (definitely not all) our thoughts into an ongoing
blog for others to read and, if they choose, debate, agree with, disagree with,
or ignore. So here goes. The blog postings will be from any of the
three of us. Don't assume that it's an opinion shared by all (definitely
we're not into mind-meld here). In fact, don't even assume that it's an
opinion that's carved in stone with the person writing it. What we're
hoping is that, if you're interested enough to read, it might make you think
(we really have no desire to make anyone agree unless they want to). And
we won't always deal with controversial topics, just topics that mean something
to us. We're also open to guest blogs so, if you have something to say,
send it our way and we'll see if it fits in with the 'temperature' of our blog.
Posted: Monday - August 20, 2007 at 04:55 PM